Monday, December 28, 2015

Hi All,
New Years Blessings to you all.
Mystic Monday and Thriller Thursday will be back next week after the holidays.

Monday, December 21, 2015

Yule Blessings! Merry Christmas!

Mystic Monday 
Winter Solstice Edition 

Yule Blessings All!
Merry Christmas!

Today I have a few things to talk about around the celebrations that are happening this week.

Today is Winter Solstice/Yule a time for celebrating the return of the Sun.  The days will start to get a little longer now until Summer Solstice when they start getting shorter again.
On this day the Goddess is blessed with the birth of the Sun God, bringing light back into the darkest time of the year.

Traditionally this is a time of great merrymaking.  Celebrations with bonfires and singing were the customs.  The Yule log was one of them and is still an important symbol.  Yule logs were often brought in the house to burn for many hours but never allowed to burn out naturally as it was thought to be bad luck.  It was also bad luck to purchase a Yule log.  The log was often decorated before put in the fireplace with a part of last year's log.  The Yule log was thought to bring good luck and health to the family.  There are many traditions that go along with Yule and some that tie into Christmas I could write for days just on those.  I encourage you to look into them as they are very interesting.

Today I encourage you to give your thanks and count your blessings in your life and let go of all the things you think you want or ask for because you think you need them.    Enjoy what is in your life and be thankful for those things.


This Christmas is the first full moon Christmas since 1977.  Chistmas is the time of year that has been way blown out of meaning by the retail people.  I could go there and stay on that soap box forever.  But let me just say this:  Enjoy your family and the peace of the day.  No worrying and no stressing.  Keep the day simple and as positive as you can.  This is the birthday of the Lord.  Many blessings to you and your family.

Ok with that said let's get to the full moon.  Powerful night.  Full moon and the timing of the birth of God.  With the light of the world returning it is time to manifest new doors opening and fullfilling projects.  I know it is Christmas but remember to do your ritual you will not be disappointed.

Mystic Monday and Thriller Thursday will return shortly after the New Year!
Holiday Blessings All,

Thursday, December 17, 2015

The Ghost of Christmas

Thriller Thursday
December 17, 2015

Hi All,
Before we get into the blog today I'd like to just throw some dates out there as to when I am at the Enchanted Boutique in White Bear Lake, MN next.  

I wll be teaching a  Crystals and Healings class January 13th the cost is 26 dollars.  We will be discussing how to choose crystals to help enhance your healing sessions as well as how to clear and program your crystals.  

January 29th I will be teaching a Past Lives class where we will discuss patterns and problems you are facing and how they could be lessons repeating from past lives.  We will also discuss how pain in this life could be related to past life trauma.  If there is time we will go through a meditation to help you connect to a past life.  Please call 651-600-3769 to reserve your spot.

The third Sunday of every month there is a meet up group at my house.  If you are interested in the next session or where to go please email me at

OK let's get to it.
I looked all over the Internet for a good Christmas haunt but came up short.
So we are going to talk A Christmas Carol or my favorite variation of it Scrooged. 

My favorite and then she hits him with a toaster....
Anyway, we all know the story Scrooge is a money hoarder and is visited by three ghost on Christmas to get his life straightened out.  Christmas Past, Present and Future.  He is shown by his ghosts how he much change his ways in order to avoid the fate of his business partner (who is in some form of Hell).

This week on Mystic Monday we touched on how the veil thins between the world and your loved ones can cross over to our world and communicate much easier.  Well this is pretty much where I'm going and instead of a haunt this week I'm taking it to the direction of picking up Mystic Monday and reflecting on this time of year.  I promise we will get back to ghost stories after the new year but please hear me out.

The Christmas season is a time of year for not only Christians but many other faiths that celebrate the coming of the Lord or Light into the world.  It's a time for family.  Christmas also brings about the end of the year and things to look back on and looking to the future.

The Ghost of Christmas Past teaches how we once were, what our goals in life were at one time and our dreams amongst other things.

The Ghost of Christmas Present teaches us to look at who we are in this moment.  What we are really like and what we are putting out in our world.  

The Ghost of Christmas Future shows us out hopes and dreams from this point forward and whether or not they match the dreams and goals we had when we looked through the eyes of Christmas Past.  
I believe this Ghost also shows us what we can do to change and be OK with letting some stuff go.

So this Christmas my wish for us all is to find our Christmas ghost and to learn from them so we can move forward happy, healthy and blessed and to avoid the Hells we may face or have overcome to not repeat them again.

Merry Christmas!  Happy Yule!  
I wish you all the very best Holiday Season and will be back after the New Year.
Blessings All,

Monday, December 14, 2015

Decemeber is that Time of Year.....

Mystic Monday
December 14, 2015

Hi All,

This week there is nothing special in the date book to share.

I thought we'd discuss some different things this week and share a little story that relates to this time of year.

It was around this time a few years back I was attuned to Reiki level l.  When I was attuned my abilities started to open up.  At this time of year I wasn't sure that meant.  When my Reiki Master was doing a session on me a crossed over loved one came through and gave me a message.  After I went home for days after I could feel my friend in my home.  Our song came on frequently which was strange since it was 2002 and our song was one from the early 1990's and didn't get much play time at all.  Then I started getting information about his death when I was in a meditative state.  After a few weeks of this and lots of questions on my end.  I had to do a meditation that involved us and me letting him go so I could fully heal and grieve from his death which I hadn't been able to let myself do.  He is now one who pops in and out regularly mostly when I need to pick a guy brain just like when he was alive.

So why did I share this.  Well, December is the month of Yule and Winter Solstice  which means thinning veil just like at Halloween.  During this month though the veil thins for more time than the 24 hours of Halloween.  I have tried to research this but I've come up with a variety of times that the veil actually stays open.  Some say between fall and winter solstice.  Some say a 24 hour thing at winter solstice.  I feel that the veil is thin from Winter Solstice to what is 12th night.  Next week we will be focusing on Winter Solstice. Traditionally, festivals of Christmas, Yule  and such started after Halloween and lasted through to January 6th.  The significance is 12th night is believed to be the day that the three wise men visited the baby Jesus,   In Wiccan traditions Yule and Winter Solstice marked the rebirth of the Sun God and celebrations that lasted 12 days.  It is my personal belief that the veil thins between these times because of all the energy that is created between all the cultures of the world celebrating the birth of a God at the same time.  This is similar to Halloween when all the cultures celebrate a night of the dead.  

My advise for December is if you want to talk to a crossed over loved one, just ask and than keep your eyes open for the signs they leave.  If there is someone you miss then hold the intent to make contact with them.  Don't be afraid to ask them questions to verify who they are as they will expect it and not mind.  It's all about keeping yourself safe in the process.  Be sure you are not inviting just anything into your home.  Be specific and keep your intent pure and ask that you stay protected yet open enough to communicate.  If you go around your house talking to whoever it is you want to contact they will answer you just have to figure out the signs if they can't directly communicate with you.  
We will pick some of this up again next week with our talk of solstice and the holidays.

Have an amazing week all,
Blessings All,

Thursday, December 10, 2015

The Flu

Thriller Thursday
December 10, 2015

Hi All,
I am sorry that I can not post this week as I am sick with I think the stomache flu or some form of it I just can't seem to shake.  Please check back next week as I will put together some December ghost stories.
Blessings All,

Monday, December 7, 2015

Moon Phases

Mystic Monday
December 7, 2015

Hi All,

The new moon is on Friday this week.  So Thursday the dark moon it's time to let it all go.  Anything that is not serving your highest good let it go.  Jaunuary 13, 2016 I will be at the Enchanted Boutique teaching a class on Stones and their energy.  Call 651-600-3769 to get more information and reserve your seat.  Space is limited.

This week I figured we would talk about moon phases and how to use them in your energy work.  I am always confused by what to do and when with the moon so I use the book "in the shadow of 13 moons" by Kimberly Sherman-Cook as my go to reference for the phases.
I really need to start working the meditations in this book and embracing my shadow self so I can completely heal.  Maybe that will be something to do from this week on.

Ok so let's review the phases of the moon and try to keep then straight in our heads. 

The Full Moon

I am going to start here because this is the moon we are all most familiar with.  The full moon is the high night of manifesting.   This is the power night of the moon that is the best night for raising your vibrations to match the vibrations of what it is you wish to bring into your life.  The full moon is also the start of the waning phase.  

Waning Phase 
This starts the night after the full moon and continues for the next 14 nights.  During this time the moon physically starts to get smaller every night.  These nights assist in removing, banishing and letting it go.  So during this time you want to spend a few minutes each day focusing on what you would like removed from or ended in your life.

Dark Moon
This moon is often confused with the new moon.  On this night the moon is completely dark in the sky.  This is a powerful night in its own right.  This is the time for banishing and closing doors for good.  Use this poser night to do a ritual for removing block, banishing things and closing doors on that which is no longer serving your higher self.  The dark moon is also the start of the waxing phase.

New Moon
This is the moon the day after the dark moon.  It is the night when the moon is a tiny little sliver of light in the sky.  This is the first night to begin maifesting or focusing on what it is you would like to bring into your life. Goals, dreams, etc.

Waxing Phase
These are the nights the moon begins to grow a little bigger and brighter every night.  The waxing phase of the moon is the time to build energy and focus on what it is you would like in your life.  So every day use a little time to focus on what it is you goals are for this new time.

So those are the phases in general and in a nut shell.  
Christmas is coming soon and we will discuss the energy that it brings with it.  So until next week let everything and anything that isn't for your highest good go.  Let it Go!  (and now who is singing that song?)

Blessings All,

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Thriller Thursday The Photos That Started It All.

Thriller Thursday
December 3, 2015

Hi All,
Happy Thursday!
This Saturday I will be at the Enchanted Boutique from 10am to whenever.  I will be doing Angel card readings and Past Life Regressions.  Call 651-600-3769 to make an appointment.

Over the past few weeks I've been sharing ghost stories from my investigations and linking them to why a ghost might stick around instead of crossing over into the light.

Well I thought this week I'd share how it all started. Years ago when I was just getting back into doing energy work and learning what my abilities were and rediscovering what it was I was doing as a child, a friend called and wanted to go out to some of the area rumored haunted places in the Stevens Point, WI area to see what I could pick up.

We got in the car and drove out to a few places armed with our map and a camera.  We would get out of the car and I would see if I could pick up on anything and my friend would take pictures.  Now then I had no idea what I was doing.  I just knew that for some reason I could feel if there was a ghost around and in some cases communicate.  I also knew that a ghost needed energy to be able to communicate so I would randomly channel Reiki energy to an area to see what we could get on camera.

The last stop of the day was what is known as the Bloody Bride Bridge on highway 66 outside of Stevens Point going east.  The story goes a bride was killed in a crash over the bridge on her way to her wedding.  If you drive over the bridge at midnight or after you have a chance at seeing her standing on the side of the road or even appearing in the backseat of your car.

We parked at Jordan park I believe and walked across the highway and down toward the trails that went along the water.  I started to pick up some things when we got to the trails.  My hands started to feel like they had pins and needles and as we walked I kept feeling like someone was following us.  We hung out near the water a bit and I took some pictures of the bridge. As we walked back we just by change found a stone bench.  So I said let's just try something.  I sat down and started by rubbing my hands together and scanning the area around me with the palms of my hands facing the area that I wanted to pick up on any energy.  Now when there is nothing around or an energy block I feel nothing, my hands are just normal.  When there is an energy block or something around my hands start to tingle or have the pins and needle sensation. Well that happened as I was sitting on the bench.  I asked my friend to start taking pictures.  I started to channel some Reiki to the area next to me on on the bench.  As I did I could feel someone sitting there.  It was like I was scanning the aura of a client I was working on.  This again was all new to me.  So we took a few pictures and then we left.

Later that night while at another friends we started to review the pictures.  I was telling stories of what the pictures were and when we got to the last three of the bench we couldn't believe our eyes.  Now I will say this about the pictures:  1. Bad bad hair, it was in a ponytail all day.  2. I was channeling Reiki to the side so you see me getting ready to channel by breathing in and drawing my hands up and then pushing energy to the side.  3.  I will only say you should see the outline of someone sitting there,  I do now yet want to tell you what I think it is.  I'd like you to look at the photos and figure it out and believe what you want.

Ok here I am feeling energy and pushing Reiki to the right side of the picture.

Here I am getting ready to channel Reiki.  Again the activity is to the right of me between me and the tree trunk.

Here it is starting to fade out.  But still hanging around a bit.

Ok you've studied the photos and made up your mind what it is or maybe you say whatever there isn't anything at all and this Wendy person is all kinds of crazy, which is all good.

Here is what I see and the two others at the photo review saw.  If you look next to me on the right of the picture on the bench by me, I see an outline of a woman with a dress.  The top of the dress has a short cape or is bigger as it flows out to her arms and the bottom of the dress is more straight cut.  She is not big.  She's about my size if not a little smaller which would put her at about a size 0 or 2.  But also remember people married young back in the day, so I'm about late 30's in this picture and a size 4.

Now why is this the picture that started it all?  Well I posted this to facebook and in a day or so it made it to a circle of friends of one of the people I had reviewed this photos with that day.  A paranormal investigator from Stevens Point messaged me and wanted to go out to the bench as soon as the weather would allow.  He then wanted to meet and we ended up working together doing some paranormal investigations with his team in Stevens Point.  So this photo really was the one that sparked my paranormal investigation education and going out with a professional group.

That's all for today.  I hope this got you thinking a little and maybe believing in ghost if you don't already.
Have an amazing rest of the week.
Blessings All,

Monday, November 30, 2015

Mystic Monday
November 30, 2015
Releasing Unwanted Energy
Hi All,
Bare with me the next few weeks as Savannah isn't editing this until after the holidays again. So this might get a little messy. Lol.

We have been talking about manifesting lately and techniques to help out with raising vibrations to match that what it is you’d like to bring into your life.
This week I’d like to introduce ways to get rid of unwanted energy.

Let’s bring in the moon phase. The waning phase of the moon is prime energy for banishing and bring about endings.  During this time from the full moon to the new moon work on removing blocks and anything you would like to exit from your life.  The dark moon is the peak time for removing and closing doors on things in your life. 
With the dark moon I will use the same ritual I use for manifesting however, I just make my list for everything in my life I would like to be done.  When I burn the list I visualize the entire situation being healed and over with.

All of what I am presenting doesn’t need to take up a bunch of time.  Things can be done within 5 minutes.  Everyday devote a little time to seeing the situation you want removed healed and gone. 

Now if the situation is a person there are a few things you can do.  I’ve heard of writing the name of the person on a small piece of paper and then putting that in a ziplock in your freezer with the intent the person leaves you alone.  I’ve also had recommended to me putting the person’s name on a paper.  Then, give the name the intent the person will stop bugging you and go away or sealing the person’s energy.  When the jar pops the situation is healed or done.

For major situations when a person’s energy is not going away and is persistent in bugging you, you can bind their energy.  You’re going to need a photo and black thread or string and a candle.  Light the candle and call in your guides/angels.  Remember keep this positive as you don’t need karma ties to this person.  Ask your guides /angels to help you protect yourself from this person’s energy.  Then take the photo and see the person surrounded in a green healing light.  Next bring in the person’s higher self and tell him/her that you do not wish to be bugged by his/her energy any longer and that you are trying to heal from the relationship or situation that has come to pass.  To end the attack from his/her energy you are binding their energy back to him or her with the intent that the person also be able to heal.  See the situation healed and roll the photo up and tie it with the black string.  The color black helps to bind the energy.  Now you can take this a step further and burn the photo rolled and tied.

Now there are a few meditations you can also do.  You can visualize a place where you can meet the person’s higher self and talk to the person who you are healing from.  You can do a different meditation where you visualize what is bothering you or what needs healing and because you have internalized it by thinking of it or holding it in your heart chakra, see yourself reaching into your body and pulling issue out in a shadow form.  Above you see the dark moon in the sky.  Release the shadow with the intent of having it healed to the dark moon.

Every time you spend time thinking of the situation that needs to be done with, cut your cords and ask the universe to take it and heal it.  You can also ask the question: Universe how does it get any better that this?  Or how does it get better than this.  People I know do this and it manifest ways to bring in something better out of the situation.

Now these are only a few ways to get things moving in the right direction on your own.  If something feels like you may not be able to handle it on your own with self-healings or things mentioned above, you may want to see a Reiki practioner or someone who does energy work to help you be done and heal yourself from this situation.  Often things we want out of our lives are lessons we have to learn to move forward and are things we need to learn and get rid of to take back our power to move forward.

New Year’s Eve is coming soon and this is a great time to leave stuff that is no longer serving your highest good in the past and create new goals for yourself.
Have a great week.
Blessings All,


Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Thriller Thursday will be back next week due to the Holiday.  Thanksgiving Blessings All!

Monday, November 23, 2015

Mystic Monday

Hi All,

Wednesday is the Full Moon. On this night the energy is high for manifesting and bringing in energy to fulfill things. The day after the full moon starts the shift into a waning energy with the peak at the dark moon for banishing. Take these few nights before the full moon to start bringing in the energy you would like to come into your life. On the full moon night do your ritual for manifesting.

Wednesday is also the beginning for the Celtic Tree Month of Elder. This is a time of transformation; death of something in you and a rebirth. Within this month Winter Solstice occurs. Mother Earth is cycling down into a time of death (shedding what is no longer needed).

Thriller Thursday will take a break this week as it is Thanksgiving. Happy Thanksgiving all!

With the full moon this week it is the perfect time to talk about manifesting. Last week we talked a little about self –reflection and it all kinda goes hand and hand.

One of the things I always need to remember is choosing my words when manifesting. It is important to avoid using the word want. The word want means that you have a lack of something. When you want something it means you do not possess it. So then when you put into your list and say something like, Universe I want blah blah brought into my life, you are actually telling the universe I have a lack of blah blah and the universe responds by “yes you do” and you will keep having a lack of  it because you keep saying you want it.

Tricky right?

To manifest you can do a few things. I write out a list of what it is I’d like to obtain in my life. I lay out all the characteristics that are important to me. Then I take a few minutes every day to review the list and ask the universe to raise or match my energy with what it is I’m trying to bring in. 

Now I have friends that manifest by giving thanks for what it is they wish to obtain in their lives as if they already have it. If you are grateful for something then the universe will give you more of it or make sure you have it.

I have done this as well. I would start by saying Universe I am so happy and grateful for blah blah …It has, “ABC”. Thank you!

On the nights of the full moon I burn a list of the item I wish to bring into my life and all the characteristics it possesses. I ask sister moon in all her magical ways to please assist me in granting my wish. What I say may change month to month but it all has the same idea behind it.

Intent is everything so make sure your intent is pure to what you are focusing on bringing in. The old saying “Be careful what you wish for”, can be true.
There is no right or wrong way of manifesting. It is simply putting out to the Universe or God what it is you’d like to see in your life. 

There are a few good books out there on manifesting. Check your local library to see what you can find.

December 5th I am at the Enchanted Boutique doing Reiki and Readings. If you are interested please call the store for an appointment. Appointments for phone or distance work can be made by emailing me. I also do energy work or reading parties. Please email me for more information.

Have a great week.

Blessings All,

Thursday, November 19, 2015

Thriller Thursday ~ Ghosts and Grief

Hi All,

We have been talking ghosts and ghost stories every Thursday. I have been sharing “Ghost 101” as I know it and some stories to how it all ties together.

Today let’s talk how grief can tie a ghost to being earthbound. While in England this last spring, my group of friends and I went to Wells Cathedral.

Wells Cathedral is the seat of the Bishop of Bath and Wells. It dates back prior to the year 1175 but has been used since then as the seat. The cathedral itself is still in use for services. 

The group ended up splitting up for a bit at our time at the Cathedral. Rob and I did a group tour to gain knowledge of the history of the building. Vicky and her group went at their own pace and took in the cathedral. 

I was in awe of all the art work not only in the design of the building but in the stain glass windows, the pews and ceiling throughout the building. To my surprise there were tombs in the floor for the building throughout the hallways and Bishops and other higher-ups in the church were entombed along the walls of the cathedral and in the mini areas that had alters. I was in constant amazement as to how huge this cathedral was and all the different areas within there were.

It started in a small round private worship area that was circular in shape. Vicky was actually exploring the area as Rob and I were wrapping up our tour. Vicky asked me to come and check out this area. When I walked into the private area I felt an overwhelming feeling of sadness and despair wash over me. Vicky asked me to step out a minute so we could discuss what I was picking up. As I stepped over the doorway and out to the hall, the feelings immediately left. Vicky shared she felt there was a woman stuck in there. I told her what I had felt and we both stepped back into the area. When we did, I took a few minutes to ground, center and do my ritual of preparing to communicate or what my friends call “Tapping In”. Once I was ready, a young woman started to come into my view. She was sobbing as she was curled up in a ball in the middle of the marble floor. I began to describe to Vicky what I was seeing. I slowly approached the woman and asked her why she was there. She said she had lost her husband and sons when raiders burned and pillaged her small village. She had thought she escaped with her infant son, but men found her hiding, took her baby, killed him in front of her and then abused her and killed her as well.

I asked her why she was here in the church and not with her family happy on the other-side and at peace. She said to me she had gotten confused and frightened with all that was going on around her and the sadness she had for her husband and boys. She was crushed spirit-wise seeing her body lying broken on the ground she thought of the Cathedral and it being a place of safety. She said she didn’t remember how she got there, just that she was there.

I then explained to her, she didn’t belong here and that she was in fact deceased like her family and she belonged in the light with them. Still grieving and wiping tears from her eyes she looked up at me and said she did not understand. I had to take a minute to figure out how I was going to explain this all to her. I began by telling her that I was very sorry for the loss of her family who she loved very much. I also told her I couldn’t imagine what she had been through and the pain she must have suffered. I explained to her that when she crossed over to Heaven or the other-side, however she sees it, that she would see her family and be healed from all she suffered in her life. She would experience pure unconditional love and all the grief would come to an end.

I then asked the angels to help by bringing her family with them to help her cross over. I saw her face light up as a small boy jumped into her arms. I could hear him scold her for taking so long to find him again. He smiled at me and then they both faded into a stream of white light.

Vicky and I took a few minutes to discuss what had happened. Then we both channeled Reiki to the area before we grounded and cut cords from the situation.
I still have a hard time believing this woman stayed trapped in the church for hundreds of years grieving for her family and scared to move on.

Have an amazing rest of the week!

Blessings All,

Monday, November 16, 2015

Mystic Monday ~ Reflection

Hi All,

Let’s take just a few minutes to remember those that were killed needlessly in Paris… Innocent lives snuffed out early…Why? Was this France’s version of our 9/11? 

Mystic Monday blog came about to educate people about one’s self. We are always talking here about ideas of working for the greatest good or working to learn from one’s higher self. Many times we talk about soul lessons and what it is we have to learn from people and situations in our lives to help our soul evolve. So with all this in mind I pose some questions for you to ponder. I can’t answer these for you and I don’t want to get started in a way that I’m standing on a soap box spewing what I believe we, as a world, should do to these terrorist. So let’s spin this and ponder this from a different point of view. 

Okay, let’s fall back on my Catholic up brining. I was brought up to believe in Heaven and Hell. I was also taught God is all forgiving. Then I started educating myself and studying the other side and different ways of thinking about things. Some in the psychic circles believe in two different tracks for the soul. One belief is that there is a light track and a dark track. Souls from the light side are souls that are always evolving to bring good into the world. Now this doesn’t mean that all the souls from this light circle are good to the extreme. Some go through life as the average person doing good things here and there for people. When they cross over they go into the light.

Now there is the dark side. This is the track where souls are just horrible. They work to bring dark and negative into the world. When these souls die they cross over into the darkness.

I’ve never heard of a “gray area” where a soul could come from one track and cross to the other. But that doesn’t mean it can’t happen. 

I’m not saying I believe this, but I have read it from respectable psychics. Now we can also look at karma. We all come from the light and we all cross back into the light and it doesn’t matter how horrible we have been because in the end it is what we learned and then we reincarnate to make up for our mistakes. 

So I leave it as that and just present some different ways of looking at the other side.
As for the people who lost their lives Friday, how can we justify those that were lost? How do we stand by as a world and not hold people accountable for the horrible killings of innocent people? 


This week I was talking to some of my friends who are intuitives. We were discussing how things in our lives are coming around and it is our time to look at what we are learning from these things. One friend said it had something to do with Saturn making an exit soon, and when it does, if we haven’t learned we will repeat the patterns in two years. So this got me to thinking of how many times I have repeated things over the last few years and had it come full circle again because I truly believe the person I’ve been on repeat with would become the person I knew he could be. But it’s all about choices and free will. I have no clue how planets or astrology figures into things so I am now reading up on all this in a 101 sort of way. Please forgive me for not being accurate.

During this time I encourage you all to look back over the last year or two if needed and see the patterns you are stuck in. Then step back and take a real good look at those patterns. What are you gaining? Are you happy? What are you getting from them? Are you giving more than you are getting back from someone? Is the situation going as you would have wished it to be so that all involved are happy and loved? If you are not receiving what you thought and you are not happy most of the time in the situation then why repeat it? Learn from it, move on, and manifest what it is you would like to come into your life. I’ve learned to start asking the universe, “How does life get better than this? How can I get…? And because I am single and seeking the one to share life with I borrowed this affirmation from a friend. “I am seeking the man who is seeking me”. However, I add to it when I burn my manifesting list with the moon phases. When I have thoughts of a person who is in the pattern I keep repeating, I ask things like, “That’s an interesting thought”, that way I can table it until I feel like looking at it or meditate on it usually that night.

I hope this gives you some things to ponder this week or do some homework and look at patterns you have been repeating and are they going to change.

Have a great week all!