The effects of other's energy even if it’s been awhile

The effects of other’s energy even if it’s been awhile

Hi All,

Let’s run down some dates and talk some energy.

Wednesday the 11^th is Veterans Day and it’s the New Moon. 

So this week the topic is energy and past people you have had relationships with who you may not have had contact with in some time and yet all of a sudden you are hit with thoughts, dreams, and signs that remind you of them. What the heck is going on?

Well let’s talk. It could be you. You, dwelling on the person, or maybe thoughts or regrets of not making things work with this person. It could be his or her higher-self seeking you out to test the waters for them to actually come back into your life to make contact. It may be time for you to really look at the relationship and take ownership for what you did in that relationship and then move on. The one thing I do know is, it is all hard.

This week I did a purging of all things connected to one person that I had left in my house. There wasn’t much. I got rid of a ring I purchased on vacation with the person(wasn’t expensive). Deleted phone numbers, photos, and emails I was hanging on to. Threw out two shirts I last wore while with the person. Got rid of any leftover gifts this person gave me. There wasn’t many as he never gave me much. Burned any notes he left me. What brought this all on? One day this week I got hit hard with his energy. I had a feeling something wasn’t right with him, I had a vivid dream of us together at his house talking and I don’t normally remember dreams. I haven’t thought of this person in a few months so it was disturbing to me that all of the sudden things would come up.

I went into the shop and discussed it with friends. I believe things happen for reasons and maybe this is a time to reflect on what really went on between the two of us. Why though is the link so strong? This is a question I cannot answer. But I have over the years I’ve known this person, discovered a few past lives we have shared and tried my best to heal them through past life regressions and sending reiki energy to the life event. I’ve tried severing cords, which I do daily, and then bless him and send love and light his way asking the angels to heal him. 

So what do you do when someone you connected with so deeply is out of your life and then out of the blue you are hit with signs or energy?

You can do a meditation to go back to the point in time when you met the person and talk to yourself about what you will experience with this person over the time the two of you share and was that for your highest good and how it is making you feel now at this point. Then give yourself a rose quartz and tell yourself you are worth more and that you deserve love from someone who will treat you better and love you unconditionally, then start carrying a rose quartz with you. This will remind you that your heart is free to accept love that is for your highest good and help you attract that unconditional love.

A friend of mine gave me a piece of black tourmaline. Black tourmaline helps to rid one and protect one from negative energy. Since I’ve been carrying this on me and having it by my bed at night there has been a world of change in just the days I’ve had it. Highly recommend it!

Now you can also do little things like put up mirrors around yourself in meditation reflecting this person’s energy back to them. You can meditate and bring in the higher-self with the person and have a talk with him or her as to why you are feeling the way you are and can he or she please stop sending out energy to you even if they aren’t sure they are doing it.

Cut your cords several times daily! Then burn the cord and cap it off in meditation so it makes it hard to reattach.

You can tell the universe when you have a thought about the person, that’s an interesting thought, how can this situation get any better than what it is now. Or you can say that’s and interesting thought, what would it look like if I had blah blah from whoever.

It’s going to take time. Purging left over things, I feel, helps as it gets rid of the energy that is attached to the item and leaves the door open so-to-speak for related energy to come in. By getting rid of them you are closing the door.

In the end you are responsible for how you feel. If you choose to let it all get to you and drag you down, then only you are responsible for that downer feeling. I know it is hard. I know it hurts. I can’t tell you any easy way to get done or when it will be done. I can just give you suggestions and we can all pray that it gets better. What I have described is not someone who is obsessed with someone else. I think what I have tried to describe is how to deal with a person that came into your life, made attachments, and for a reason left or maybe couldn’t deal with feelings. These suggestions are some ways to help you detach from this person’s energy and move forward. It’s never easy when someone we share life with and connect with on many levels leaves and then drops off the face of the earth then months later or sometime later you are hit with this energy that starts making you wonder if they are alright. You have a nagging feeling they are going through something life changing at the moment or something isn’t right and there is nothing you can do about it.

I am sorry I have no answers or easy fixes for this. It’s just lessons we all have to go through and some are way longer than they should be because for some reason some of us are thick headed and do not get it the first or second try with the person.

 

Food for thought, have an amazing week!

Blessings All,

Wendy

Thriller Thursday - What is a ghost and why does it haunt?

What is a ghost and why does it haunt?

Hi All,

Well since Thriller Thursday is popular I will continue to write every Thursday about things that go bump in the night. Please send me topics you’d like covered that relate to the ghostly realms.

I am at The Enchanted Boutique this Friday night doing readings and all day Saturday. Please call 651-600-3769 to make an appointment. I am also starting to do Past Life Regressions there as well. Appointments for those will be booked at the minimum time of an hour and go up to two hours. Past Life Regression can help you break free of patterns in this life or habits you may have. By looking at past lives you may gain knowledge of present pain and how to help your body let that energy go to recover from the trauma once experienced. I will walk you through a mediation where you will uncover what life you need to look at and then we will work on it together once you have learned what it is you need to see from that life. You are in control the entire session, this isn’t hypnosis. 

Today we are going to kick this back to keeping it simple and go over some basic information and tie it in with some stories if need be.

What is a ghost?

A ghost is someone who has died and has not yet crossed over into the light. A ghost is very simply put— a disembodied person. Most ghosts do not cross over into the light for various reasons. The ghost may not know he or she is dead. The death may have been so quick or violent that the ghost has not had time to process that he or she died during the event. The ghost may have unfinished business. Yes, like the movies, this does happen. The ghost may have some message for a loved one it needs to get across to that person before he or she can cross into the light. Some feel like they do not deserve the “unconditional love” that is in the light and therefor choose to stay earthbound. Others may be too afraid to cross over because of religious beliefs they were taught in this life. There are many reasons ghosts stay earthbound and do not choose to cross over. Remember when dealing with a ghost, it was, and still is, a person, just without a body. We are instantly attracted to people or dislike people and a ghost is the same. He or she may not want to communicate with you so please be respectful. People who taunt and try to bully a ghost into communicating are just that, bully’s, and really do not know what they can get themselves into by being aggressive or mean to a ghost that refuses to communicate. Now, on the other hand, a ghost may be getting angry or mean with you and try to bully or push you around. Disengage and call down some angels to help protect you. Do not push it or say something that would cause it to follow you home this can lead to so many problems.

Popping in and out:

Some ghosts have already crossed over into the light and have had their life review and learned from it. These ghosts are often best friends or relatives who briefly come back into our lives to give us information and then go back to the other-side. They are what I will say pop in and out. They cross back and forth. Your grandma that you were close to and comforted you as a child or a young adult may still pop back in when you need comfort. You may even feel her presence in some way. You may have a feeling she is around, or smelling her perfume or cookies, seeing her favorite animal or some other sign.

What makes a place haunted?

There’s a question! There are so many ways to go with this one. Most haunted places are places that are familiar to the ghost that is hanging around. Places that are haunted usually have some kind of energy source around it. Natural running water, crowds of people have energy that can be used to manifest. Places where death was violent and abundant such as a battle ground can hold energy for a ghost or many to manifest. Such places are also full of tourist’s energy to help a ghost manifest. Cemeteries are, I’m told, often not haunted, but I have yet to believe this as every time I go visit one during the day there is one or two ghosts hanging around. The theory behind a cemetery not being haunted is there is no live people energy there that would give enough for ghosts to hang out and manifest.

Houses or buildings can be haunted because the ghost or ghosts haunting the place are attached to the place for some reason. The house may have been built and loved by the ghost so he or she refuses to leave it even in death. Buildings for the same reason can be haunted. Or a building may have a great deal of negative energy stored up in it as it could have been the place of violence or many deaths. It may be the building is just a popular public place from the ghost’s time period and therefor the ghost refuses to leave.

Have you noticed I didn’t say anything about residual hauntings or demons or negative ghost? Most of the ghosts I encounter are not ‘horrible’. I have been told that very few hauntings are demonic, I’m not saying it cannot happen, I’m just saying I’ve been told very few. That is different from say a violent person haunting an area. These angry ghosts can make things move and can be dangerous to be around. A great reason for not going into a place and provoking the local ghost. 

Residual haunting is an energy print of an event left on a place. It’s like a video tape or DVD that plays the same story at the same time every day or night. My friend’s cottage in England had a residual haunt. A dark shadow of a man would walk through her kitchen, stop at the foot of her stairs, pause, and walk through her wall into the next cottage. It happened frequently and mostly at night like he was checking in to make sure all was well before going to bed himself. He was more like a protector.

Well I’ve left you some things to think about, maybe say, ‘Wendy you are so full of crap or Hey, some of what you wrote here today makes sense to me’. 

Have an amazing weekend!

Blessings All,

Wendy

Surviving Halloween Energy

Surviving Halloween Energy

Hi All,

Friday I will be at the Enchanted Boutique from 7 to 8pm. Then Becca and I will be there all day Saturday doing Reiki and Readings. Stop in and see me! I am also working on a schedule for teaching classes, so I will post things as they unfold.

Let’s jump right in and talk Halloween Energy and the start of the Celtic New Year.

Saturday was Halloween or Samhain as you all know. Not only a day for children dressing up and knocking on doors to get candy, but celebrating the dead. I don’t mean just any dead, but your family, the ancestors. On this day I usually meditate on relatives I was close to or relatives I would have liked to know but crossed over well before my time on Earth began. I give them thanks for every part of me that they may have contributed to or things they may have taught me. Some food for thought for next year. 

Then Samhain is also the Celtic New Year. This Day is a time for self-reflection of the past year. What has come and gone? What is it you would like in your life for the future? How do you obtain it? Well, let me tell you, I do what I do for manifesting on this night. I wrote out what I wished to leave in the old year and what I wished to gain in this New Year. I then burned it, releasing it into the universe.

So that leads us to Halloween energy. This week was also the full moon, another energy, to add to what was going on with the veil between the worlds being thin. Have you been feeling a bit of anxiety or tired? It is time to clean the energy in your house. Burn some Sage, Palo Santo, Lavender, or Dragon’s Blood to help raise the vibrations of your house. Then it isn’t a bad idea to smudge yourself with sage to let go of the energy that is holding you down or dragging energy from you. Remember to cut your cords as well.

New Year, how about a new you? What have you been doing to get yourself going? It’s that time to start making things happen! 

I know the blog is short today. I just wanted to give you some things to think about and see what you will do with it.

Have an amazing week! 

Blessings All,

Wendy

Hi All,
We are working on a back up plan for Swede Hallow since it might rain.  I should have something posted on the event page and Mystic Monday facebook page tonight as to where we will meet if it is raining.
Blessings,
Wendy

Thriller Thursday

Hi All,

Let’s jump right into the ghost story!

This past weekend I sat in on a Ghost Investigations class out at the Enchanted Boutique and was talked into going to the Real Ghost tours on Saint Anthony’s Main in Minneapolis, MN.

We arrived for the 9:30 tour. The staff gives you a backpack to use for the night with a flashlight, an EMF detector and rods. Then you set off on a 90 minute walking tour. We started by going outside to the bridge across the street. I suggest dressing for the weather. I always dress in layers because you never know how cold basements and what not can be. Anyway, under the overpass for the bridge the group was given a chance to use EMF detectors. Now I warned the tour guides that I am a medium and that I would stay to the back of the group so I could pick up on things. The guide was awesome and she really knew her history. She said that afterwards she wanted to compare notes. Jenny Davis and I started to conduct our own investigations with the equipment that she brought. I was armed with my flashlight and voice recorder, along with my notebook.

After a little time under the bridge and some pictures, we took off with the group to the buildings. The most active area was the basement. Now it is hard to get EVP’s down there as the next day there was a lot of background noise to get through to hear any whispers from the residents that haunted the building, however I did catch a few.

We entered an area where a little boy Jimmy hangs out. The guide was able to get Jimmy to play with the groups’ EMF detectors. Jenny set up her high-tech spirit box which also takes temps. The spirit around us can manipulate the box and the sound it gives off and then the lights also go off. I had the flashlight down and Jenny had her box on. The guide asked if Jimmy could manipulate the box and a few seconds after she asked, the box went wild with making noise and the temp dropping. The group continued off down a hallway that was an area used as a brothel. I lingered behind. My legs got chilled the height of a child, as if a child was holding on to me around my knees. The two men that were helping with the tour asked what I was feeling. I said Jimmy is telling me that I am not allowed to go down the hallway. He isn’t allowed to go any further than this entryway. As I crossed the door way the coldness went away so I backed up and crossed back to Jimmy’s side of the hall. Again my legs became cold. I told him I would be “okay” and then I continued with the two men on staff from the tour.

We entered the hallway where the brothel was located and the group had already started to communicate with the ghosts there. The ghosts were lighting up all the EMF detectors when asked questions. I was given a vision of a woman being strangled with a white scarf. She also said her name was Emily. I called out to the woman guiding our tour, “Do you know if there was a murder here?” All the EMF detectors went off. Then I asked, “Is there an Emily here?”  and again all the detectors went off. I then asked, “Emily were you strangled with a white scarf?”  and yet again all the EMF detectors went off. The tour guide took a moment and had the group surround the area with white light and happy memories. I began to help Emily cross over into the light. I simply asked an angel to come down and then asked Emily to think of her parents or a loved one who would appear to her to help her into the light. As far as I know she went. 

After all of this we continued to walk the building and then went down into an area of the basement where they were doing some remodeling and putting in new bathrooms.

In the hallway before the bathrooms Jenny and I were able to get some activity with the flashlight being turned on and off. Before going down the hallway I was looking toward the far wall and I kept seeing a shadow of the outline of a person walking across the hallway. I said to Jenny, “Do you see that?” We both looked down the hall. She’s like, “Well let’s go down there… you first.” 

Great. Me first! I was carrying a voice recorder and when I played it back the next day, at this point you can hear a voice whisper, “Go this way.”  That was said as I started down the hall.

More was caught on the voice recorder and we did have a good flashlight session. The ghosts in the hall were not real keen on the idea of having me around so I ended up leaving the group so the ghosts would communicate more with the tour. For some reason they didn’t like me being there as a medium. Which is all good, not everyone likes you in life, therefore not everyone wants to talk to you when they are dead.

If you want a great interactive tour I highly recommend going to the Real Ghost Tour. It will cost you about $25 and there is a lot of good history of the area given as well.

If you are in the Saint Paul area, Becca and I will be hosting a haunted picnic on Halloween from 11am to 1pm at Swede Hallow Park. We are taking donations of  $2.00 to help cover the cost of water and snacks.

Have a great rest of the week and as always Blessings All!

Wendy